I am trusting that you will be amazed at what happens when Adam turns three. The two's are called "terrible" for a reason; not all 2 yr olds are, but it's been my experience that most of them are at one time or another during that infamous year. I'm confident that you two will figure out something that will work - this is the "trial-and-error" method of parenting that you are both already very good at. :o} Hang in there - God loves new parents too!